Now that the weather's getting nicer, I've seen a lot more bachelor and bachelorette parties out and about. One of the biggest differences I've noticed in France is that they usually make the bride/groom-to-be dress up in a ridiculous costume and wander around town, collecting bisous and/or money.
Exhibit A:
Exhibit B:The other day at the gym, a girl walked in dressed up as a giant bonbon. Her hat was decorated with candy kebabs that she was trying to sell in order to raise money for her honeymoon. I thought a gym was a sort of weird place to choose - though I guess it could go either way: she could've either sold them all at once or not sold a single one at all. Too bad for her it was the second option this time around. I don't take my wallet to the gym, so I couldn't have bought one even if I'd wanted to.
After she left, I walked into the changing room and asked the elderly Portuguese woman if she'd seen her. She said no, but "De toute façon, nowadays people are married today, divorced tomorrow". I was a bit taken aback by her cynicism - I'd like to hope there's still at least some chance that 1) I'll get married someday and 2) that I'll stay that way.
So has anyone out there had a French-style bachelor/bachelorette party? If so, what did they dress you up us? And what kind of défis did you have to do?
Labels: Neighborhood oddities
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Nope, no bachelorette party at all for me, and my husband went hiking in the snow in the alps with two of his friends.
I had my bachelorette party in Normandy but we were mostly all expats so we did it US-style. They did make me open my eyes to open all of my gifts, which were mostly embarassing, brightly colored sex toys. I was pretty drunk but I do remember having to go up to guys and asking them to buy me drinks.
Penis-man! We just saw a guy dressed up like that Saturday in downtown Toulouse. We also saw a group of girls walking around with t-shirts "Meetic a marché pour elle". I wonder how many expats would have a "Study abroad worked for him/her" t-shirts...
I've seen lots of bachelorette (hens) parties around at the moment too. Not so many Bachelor (stag) parties however. I like what some of my friends are doing now back home - they go to a vineyard or a spa retreat instead of going out to the bars dressed up silly and doing tasks like getting a guy to buy you a drink. I think if I get married I'd prefer a girls trip to the vineyard.
Yup, spas are the thing to do right now. A night girls day at the spa starting with a mimosa breakfast of course! Then afternoon drinks somewhere and an elegant dinner. Maybe a bar later on in the night, but nothing crazy. Also destination parties are in. Just had a friend have one in Miami and another in Las Vegas...they are quite the event!
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