Totally Frenched Out

From the blogger formerly known as Samdebretagne

Friday, April 18, 2008

One step forward, 500 steps back

Or at least this is what I kept telling myself yesterday to dull the pain after learning that Fab, aka M. Radin, was paying for nights in a hotel so he could sleep with his new girlfriend.

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26 Comments:

Blogger Jennie said...

oh honey, i'm sorry! :(

just keep looking forward to your new life in Paris - it will be infinitely better there!!

.hugs.

jennie

April 18, 2008 at 10:44 AM  
Blogger Global Librarian said...

Who told you that?!!

Whoever it was should be slapped up-side the head. That is information that does not need to be shared. Send me a name and address. I'll take care of it.

April 18, 2008 at 10:52 AM  
Blogger Emily said...

Oh Sam, I'm sorry...What a Jerk.
Just keep on looking forward...

Emily
xxx

April 18, 2008 at 11:42 AM  
Blogger Le Tigre in France said...

What a twat! Has he got no feelings whatsoever? How did you come about the info? If someone went out of your way to tell you, then you should probably cut them out of your life as well. Where's the integrity here for either party?

April 18, 2008 at 1:29 PM  
Blogger Syd said...

I'm with the librarian.

Well, this is shit, and it sounds more and more like you're well shot of him.

Poor Sam. One thing you've got to remember, if you can, is that what other people do is almost always about them and not about you. In other words, his cheating is all about him and what he lacks, not about you.

April 18, 2008 at 2:42 PM  
Blogger katiez said...

It always hurts to find out what bastards they are/were....
On the other hand....better a hotel than your bed...
Not much...but a little...
And yeah, what kind of a friend told you that anyway? We don't always need to know everything....
Here's another hug...

April 18, 2008 at 3:19 PM  
Blogger Karina said...

oh sam that just sucks, and never wanting to say anything bad about Fab before now I feel like saying that its true, you're going to be so much better off without him! you deserve so much better than that, you deserve the best!
big big hugs!!!

ps. when are you coming to visit? ;-)

April 18, 2008 at 4:21 PM  
Blogger Justin said...

Just hurry up and move to Paris, forget about him, and be happy! I know it hurts, so try to think about other things. And seriously whoever told you that is a jackass, did they think it was supposed to help?

April 18, 2008 at 5:10 PM  
Blogger La Belette Rouge said...

Oh sweetie. I am so sorry! What a prat. Keep your eyes on your future--as best you can. Big hug to you.

April 18, 2008 at 5:11 PM  
Blogger Corine said...

Well, en Bretagne, there are many cons living there, therefore it rains a lot. Pardon my French.

Vive Paris!!!

We are all with you.
Corine.

April 18, 2008 at 5:23 PM  
Blogger judyb said...

asshole.

April 18, 2008 at 5:41 PM  
Blogger purejuice said...

another reason not to take phone calls from shit-stirrers.
xxx

April 18, 2008 at 5:55 PM  
Blogger Princesse Ecossaise said...

Oh God just reading that makes me feel so angry and it makes me want to biff him one right across his stupid face!

He's a Loser and she's a whore, they won't last.

You are definitely much much MUCH better off without him hon, and I've seen your photos on facebook, you're a beautiful girl, you're gonna be beating them off with a stick!

xxxxxxxxxx

April 18, 2008 at 6:13 PM  
Blogger Starman said...

I understand you're need to know while at the same time knowing it will make the wounds a little deeper.

April 18, 2008 at 6:18 PM  
Blogger Alyssa said...

I can't imagine who would tell you this and why.
My only thought at this point is that he is not spending YOUR (like, shared) money to pay for this stuff. I'm assuming you have separated your finances at this point? Because honestly, that's what you need to be thinking about at this point.
But yuck. I'm really sorry about this Sam.

April 18, 2008 at 8:57 PM  
Blogger Mignon said...

I'm with Judyb and purejuice. Someone needs to be bitch-slapped. Dang, I normally dont't talk getto. But ....But nothing. He's a jerk and she a jerkette.

April 18, 2008 at 9:30 PM  
Blogger misschrisc said...

Oh crap Sam I´m really sorry. That must really hurt. What a huge mistake he´s making! He will be bored in six months to a year when the whole "Mr. Radin" mystery and fun dies off and meanwhile you will just be getting out there meeting lots of new interesting and honest friends. That´s how it ALWAYS works out.

:big hug:

April 18, 2008 at 11:45 PM  
Blogger Leesa said...

OHHH!!! That makes me FURIOUS! This happened to a close friend of mine who was married for 16 years and has two kids... I think this men need to be slapped up-side the head, too! His HUGE loss, Sam... When he sees that, it will be way too late... You will find someone worthy of you.. I just know it...I'm so sorry to hear this Sam. You know that we are all hear for you... Hugs, hugs and more hugs... Leesa

April 19, 2008 at 2:38 AM  
Blogger Ginger said...

Grrrrrrrrrr. I should like to toss a glass of good red in his lying face !

Fourteen-hour days, hah ! Bloody git.

He deserves a landside of bad karma raining down on his lying, dishonorable, cheating head !

I am seething .... !

This is a good, a very, very good turn for you Sam. Can you imagine going on with this idiot ? Pffft ! He does not deserve someone like you and I hope that the low-life of a woman (really, what woman would take another woman's man ? She does not even respect herself !!!) that he has paired up with run into the wall that they are running towards.

Really, I wish you the best. The very best.

Hang tough .... you will prevail. Heck you already are.

Sue

April 19, 2008 at 2:46 AM  
Blogger GwenDC said...

One trick I used when I was in a similar situation was to go through in my head every terrible revelation that might happen and then when I found thing out I wasn't as shocked and disappointed. He will regret losing you - they always do!

April 19, 2008 at 3:58 AM  
Blogger Kim/Thomas said...

one word....KARMA!

April 19, 2008 at 4:28 AM  
Blogger rswb said...

Yep, what a bastard ..

.. but I don't agree with everyone else on here who says you should shoot the messenger (ie. the person who told you about the hotel rooms). Personally I would rather know all the stupid details so that I could be as pissed off as the situation warranted, rather than being left in the dark (especially if other people knew the truth. If anyone should know the truth, it's you. In my opinion.)

April 19, 2008 at 9:31 AM  
Blogger Jules said...

gah. I don't know what else to say.

April 19, 2008 at 10:10 AM  
Blogger Eastern_enchant said...

oh Sam, i know it's shocking, but to move on, put all about him in the past, treat all time you had as just memories.
Big huggies.

April 19, 2008 at 1:14 PM  
Blogger Elena said...

You are better off without him. Keep telling yourself you deserve so much more.

April 19, 2008 at 4:10 PM  
Blogger Alison said...

I pretty much agree with everything everyone else said.

((hugs))

April 19, 2008 at 6:09 PM  

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