tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2394835278337306813.post4510802761847464434..comments2024-03-21T12:20:09.085+01:00Comments on Totally Frenched Out: Ksamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05991667611234163617noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2394835278337306813.post-72332860065175393522008-05-19T02:17:00.000+02:002008-05-19T02:17:00.000+02:00RUN ... don't walk. When exactly does your paperw...RUN ... don't walk. When exactly does your paperwork finalize for your citizenship ?<BR/><BR/>Cut your communication with this toxic bunch as soon as you can. As soon as your citizenship process is finalized.<BR/><BR/>Unbelieveable .... you are patient and strong. Hold your chin up, fists clenched at your sides and get through this.<BR/><BR/>You have your future ahead of you ... this is only a nasty speed bump.Gingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09153616162583566453noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2394835278337306813.post-75014124352086590832008-05-17T11:03:00.000+02:002008-05-17T11:03:00.000+02:00That was just mean of her.That was just mean of her.A (Parisian) Seattleite back in Seattlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00587275909709928764noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2394835278337306813.post-44413152822883384422008-05-16T12:38:00.000+02:002008-05-16T12:38:00.000+02:00I think you'd be best served if you only dealt wit...I think you'd be best served if you only dealt with them when it's absolutely necessary and totally forget them the rest of the time. They screwed you, you don't have to even respond to their crap.Starmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12386841450183061541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2394835278337306813.post-34042247704944381352008-05-16T07:10:00.000+02:002008-05-16T07:10:00.000+02:00Listen to the Bold Soul, Sam!Listen to the Bold Soul, Sam!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2394835278337306813.post-77356020341041907502008-05-16T01:13:00.000+02:002008-05-16T01:13:00.000+02:00OMG, This family sounds really f***ed up and reall...OMG, This family sounds really f***ed up and really sad & pathetic. When I think this is the picture of France you had during the past 8 years, I admire you patience!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2394835278337306813.post-61011886793914397982008-05-15T20:31:00.000+02:002008-05-15T20:31:00.000+02:00What a nightmare of a ex-mother in law. I can't be...What a nightmare of a ex-mother in law. I can't believe you put up with her for that long in the first place!! So fake...<BR/><BR/>Soon you'll head off into new adventures and put those people behind you.Astridhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12889077261997269904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2394835278337306813.post-54486047220924881222008-05-15T19:11:00.000+02:002008-05-15T19:11:00.000+02:00Even when you know why she might have said you sai...Even when you know why she might have said you said something like that... wtf? Not an excuse. Try to enjoy the rest of your Tour de France without worrying about the mess Fab's put himself and his entire family into. That's his responsability now, while you're free of it.<BR/><BR/>I hope she'll have enough personal integrity not to mess with your interview call.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06551616905971658989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2394835278337306813.post-45333826215417372062008-05-15T17:39:00.000+02:002008-05-15T17:39:00.000+02:00The bold soul has it right! You need to stop thin...The bold soul has it right! You need to stop thinking about that crazy family and start focusing on how you will not have to deal with their crazy anymore. You are better off. Everyone in that household seems to me like they should be on some serious meds, so don't let it stir you up. Now go out and enjoy Paris! :-)Justinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11313092689739313021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2394835278337306813.post-34614908329354941102008-05-15T15:25:00.000+02:002008-05-15T15:25:00.000+02:00Bold Soul, you are so gifted with the right words ...Bold Soul, you are so gifted with the right words and thoughts. Sam, find a spot that brings you peace (I like the Medici fountain in Jardin du Luxembourg.) and release Fab, his girlfriend and his family from living rent free in your head. Wish them the very best in life and then "commencer" your new life focusing on YOU.balletdancerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12816822971713385494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2394835278337306813.post-52193635419853707862008-05-15T14:11:00.000+02:002008-05-15T14:11:00.000+02:00OK here is one of the best things anyone ever told...OK here is one of the best things anyone ever told me, that helped me put things in perspective when someone else doesn't like me or is telling stories. Repeat after me:<BR/><BR/>"Your opinion of me is none of my business."<BR/><BR/>What this means is that someone else's opinion is just that - THEIR OPINION. Nothing more. And they are entitled to it, even if it is unfair, unjust, unflattering to you, and a bold-faced lie. An opinion isn't necessarily the truth, it's just a perspective on the truth. You can't force them to change their opinions of you or their behaviors. This family sounds like it was a real mess long before YOU came on the scene and they will continue to be a mess after you've completely left their lives once and for all.<BR/><BR/>Your only job now is to make yourself happy. And in this instance it might require you giving up the need for their good opinion of you, because that's something over which you have zero control, and to try and influence their opinion only keeps you focused on THEM and THEIR happiness (with you) rather than on your own happiness.The Inside Skinny Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04409942543315008503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2394835278337306813.post-53292839401110691572008-05-15T09:04:00.000+02:002008-05-15T09:04:00.000+02:00Damn.Ditto Global LibrarianDamn.<BR/><BR/>Ditto Global Librarianjudybhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16296120158309147589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2394835278337306813.post-59111872804385221472008-05-15T08:18:00.000+02:002008-05-15T08:18:00.000+02:00Good Lord! Sorry this may mess up your application...Good Lord! Sorry this may mess up your application.<BR/><BR/>But in every other respect, you are lucky to get as far away from that family as possible!Global Librarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14829642620261054318noreply@blogger.com